Free love language test for couples
Find out how your partner feels loved.
Take the test, send the link, and see both of your love languages side by side. Free, and about four minutes.
The five love languages you will rank
- Words of AffirmationHearing "I love you", being thanked by name, and getting praise for effort, not only results.
- Quality TimeLong talks, shared plans, and moments when the rest of the world is put on hold.
- Receiving GiftsSmall surprises that show they listened, and keepsakes from times you shared.
- Acts of ServiceA task done before you asked, a hard day made easier, and follow-through on promises.
- Physical TouchHugs hello and goodbye, holding hands, and closeness during hard moments.
- Then send your link and compare with your partner.
Love Kits
The tools are free. A kit gives you the whole set.
Every piece below comes in all 10 designs, with your names and no site name on the page. Type once and every piece fills itself in. Tap any piece to see it bigger.
Love Notes Kit
Reasons lists, cards, jar slips, 16 letters and labels, 10 designs
Love Language Kit
A printable guide built from both of your results, 10 designs
Want both? Get the two kits together for $8. One payment, no subscription.
See the Love KitsFree tools for couples
10 free tools. Each one puts your names on the page.
How it works
1. Take the test
30 quick pairs. Pick the one that would make you feel more loved.
2. Send it to your partner
They take it on their phone. You both see your results side by side.
3. Say it in writing
Turn what you learned into reasons, letters or a 30-day challenge.
Why couples use SoulMatch
Made for two
Each of you answers alone, then you compare. No one sees answers early.
Written by people
Every question, reason and letter is hand-written. Edit any word.
Private by design
Answers and letters stay in your browser. Nothing is stored on our side.
Prints anywhere
A clean PDF for US Letter or A4, on any home printer.
A look at the designs
10 designs across every printable. Tap a page to see it bigger.
Questions and answers
What is SoulMatch?
SoulMatch is a free website for couples. You can take a love language test together and compare results, and make printable love notes: reasons why I love you lists, cards and jars, and open when letters.
Is it really free?
Yes. The love language test, your partner comparison, a reasons list and three open when letters are free. We ask for your email once, when you download your first PDF. Extra designs and printables are in the paid kits.
How does the couples comparison work?
You take the test and get a private link. Your partner takes the same test on their phone. Then you both see your rankings side by side, with a short reading of what they mean.
Is this the official 5 Love Languages® quiz?
No. SoulMatch is independent and not affiliated with The 5 Love Languages® or Gary Chapman. Our test uses the same five categories with our own questions.
Do you store our answers?
No. Answers, names and letters stay in your browser. A shared result travels inside the link itself, so only people you send it to can see it.
Who writes the reasons and letters?
People do. Every reason and every open when letter on SoulMatch is hand-written, and you can edit every word before you print.
What is in the kits?
The Love Notes Kit adds 9 designs, reason cards, jar slips, all 16 open when letters and envelope labels. The Love Language Kit adds a printable couple guide with ideas, a 30-day challenge and fridge cards. $4.99 each or $8 for both, one time.
Is there a subscription?
No. Kits are single payments. Nothing renews and there is nothing to cancel. Refunds are available within 14 days.
Does it work on a phone?
Yes. The test and the makers work on any phone, tablet or computer. You can take the test on your phone and send the link to your partner by text or WhatsApp.
Is it good for long distance couples?
Very. You can take the love language test from different cities and compare instantly, and open when letters are one of the most loved long distance gifts.